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Who Gets the Country Club Membership in a Massachusetts Divorce?

For some couples considering divorce, the question is not simply, “Who gets the house?” It may also be, “What happens to the country club membership?”

On the North Shore of Massachusetts, private clubs can be an important part of family life, social relationships, and professional networks. Whether it is a golf club, yacht club, or another private membership organization, the membership may represent much more than a recreational expense.

Families may spend their summers there, children may participate in sports and activities, and parents may have longstanding social and professional relationships connected to the club.

So what happens to that membership when a marriage ends?

Is a Country Club Membership a Marital Asset?

Massachusetts follows an equitable distribution approach to property division, meaning marital assets are divided fairly based on the circumstances rather than automatically divided 50/50.

A club membership acquired or maintained during the marriage may therefore need to be considered as part of the overall financial picture.

However, a membership is different from a house, bank account, or investment portfolio. The club’s own rules, bylaws, and membership agreement may affect whether the membership can be transferred, retained, refunded, or held by a particular spouse.

Who Gets to Keep the Membership?

In some cases, one spouse may retain the membership while the court considers its value or financial benefit when dividing other marital assets.

Questions may include:

  • Whose name is on the membership?
  • When was the membership obtained?
  • Were marital funds used for initiation fees or dues?
  • Does the club allow a membership to be transferred between spouses?
  • Is any portion of the initiation fee refundable?
  • What do the club’s bylaws say happens after divorce?

The answer may depend as much on the club’s rules as it does on the financial circumstances of the divorce.

What About the Children?

For some families, the membership is closely tied to the children’s routines and activities.

Parents may need to consider:

  • Whether the children can continue using the club
  • Access to pools, golf, tennis, sailing, or summer programs
  • Whether both parents can attend children’s activities
  • Whether a former spouse can continue as a guest
  • How future membership expenses will be handled

These issues may be especially important when the club has been a significant part of the children’s lives.

The Value May Go Beyond the Membership Fee

A country club membership can also involve social relationships, professional connections, and a lifestyle that has developed over many years.

For one spouse, keeping the membership may be a priority. For the other, receiving additional value through another marital asset may make more sense.

For example, one spouse may agree to retain the club membership while the other receives additional value through investments, home equity, or another asset.

The right approach depends on the membership’s financial value, the club’s rules, the family’s circumstances, and the overall division of property.

Is the Membership Worth Fighting For?

That answer will be different for every family.

For some people, the membership may be an important part of their social life, their children’s activities, or their professional network. For others, the cost of keeping it may outweigh the benefit after divorce.

Understanding the rules and financial implications before negotiating can help you decide how important the membership should be within the larger divorce strategy.

Getting Help With High-Value and Lifestyle Assets in Divorce

Divorce can involve assets that do not fit neatly into traditional categories. Private club memberships, business interests, real estate, investments, and other lifestyle assets may all require careful consideration.

At Fleischer Law Solutions, we help clients navigate property division and other financial issues that arise during divorce, including matters involving significant assets and complex financial circumstances.

Please contact Fleischer Law Solutions to schedule a consultation if you have questions about a private club membership, property division, or how a particular asset may be treated in your Massachusetts divorce. Or call us today at 978-871-2928.

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Published on September 22, 2026