There is no easy answer to the question when to file for a divorce. Everyone’s situation is unique and personal. The decision to get a divorce and end a marriage can be the most difficult and emotional decision in one’s life. Change often brings uncertainty. But staying in a toxic marriage can have significant negative consequences on a person’s emotional and physical health. It can affect a person’s finances, ability to properly raise their children or their safety. Some people stay in toxic relationships to avoid the unknown. The decision to divorce and end a marriage is personal but the following are some signs that it is time to make a change:
- Infidelity
- secrets
- Mental and physical abuse
- Addictions including substance abuse and gambling
- Lack of trust
- No quality time together
- Persistent unhappiness
- Financial disagreements
- Differences in values and life goals
- Loss of love and affection
- Emotional detachment
- Lack of communication
What Should I do to Prepare Myself for Divorce?
- Consider Speaking to a Marriage Counselor or Other Mental Health Professional if You Think There is a Chance for Reconciliation If couple’s therapy is not an option, consider private sessions to assist with either making the decision to divorce or with obtaining coping skills to stay in the relationship.
- Consult with a Divorce Attorney to Explain Your Rights and Options Every divorce is different. We at Fleischer Law Solutions meet with each client to learn about their individual situations. From there we tailor a legal strategy that will obtain the most equitable agreement in the most efficient and cost-effective manner.
- Consult with a Financial Specialist With divorce brings financial changes. Will there be alimony? Will I receive child support? Will I get child support? Will I have to divide my retirement accounts and pension? How will I maintain my standard of living after the divorce. We at Fleischer Law Solutions recommend speaking with a financial expert who specializes working with divorcing couples, who can look at your finances objectively, and assist your attorney with crafting an agreement that will meet your goals. We at Fleischer Law Solutions work with various financial specialists and will gladly make you a referral.
- Build your Support Group No one should go through a divorce alone. Divorce is probably one of the most emotionally charged events in one’s life. The best divorce agreements are negotiated when a person is thinking logically, not emotionally. Many people seek help through mental health professionals, divorce coaches, life coaches, and support groups. Friends and family are always going to be supportive but, in my experience representing clients in divorce, people who have a solidsold support group of both friends, family and objective professionals are able to cope better through the experience and assist their attorney in making sound decisions.
The New Year is traditionally a time of renewed goals and intentions. As you step into the new year, take the opportunity to chart a path that prioritizes your happiness, stability, and emotional well-being. We at Fleischer Law Solutions are here to support you through your journey. Contact Fleischer Law Solutions to book a consultation to discuss your legal rights and options during a divorce or separation.